Counselor's Corner
  • How Gratitude Helps Children

    Thankfulness and gratitude are common themes this time of year and have several positive effects on children's development, including:

    1. Emotional well-being - Practicing gratitude helps children develop a positive outlook. It encourages them to focus on good things in their lives, promoting contentment and lowering levels of stress.

    2. Social relationships - Gratitude strengthens positive interactions. When children express gratitude, they acknowledge the kindness and support of others, which leads to increased empathy, compassion, and prosocial behavior.

    3. Resilience and coping skills - By focusing on the positive, children learn to reframe challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth. They can find silver linings and adapt to difficult situations, enhancing their ability to bounce back from adversity.

    4. Self-esteem and self-worth - When children recognize and appreciate their own strengths, abilities, and achievements, it boosts confidence and self-image. Gratitude also reduces social comparisons, as children value what they have instead of comparing themselves to others.

    5. Mindfulness - Practicing gratitude encourages us to be present in the moment, rather than dwelling on past regrets or worrying about the future. Children develop an awareness of the small joys and blessings in their daily lives, enhancing well-being.

    To cultivate gratitude in your children, encourage them to keep gratitude journals, express appreciation through verbal or written thank-you notes, or try acts of kindness. Together, donate toys, books, or clothes to those in need. Volunteer as a family at local charities or community events. Set aside time each day, during dinner or before bedtime, for everyone to share something they are grateful for. Express appreciation for the simple things in life, such as a beautiful sunset or a kind gesture from a friend. Let your children witness your gratitude toward others, and you’ll find that gratitude is truly a gift that keeps on giving. 


Marli Bartness, Counselor
  • Marli Bartness
    (360) 652-4515 ext. 4137

    Office Hours:
    M - F:  8:00 am - 4:00 pm